In the growth process of children, parents often pour all their knowledge, experience, and life lessons onto them without considering what should be learned first. Nietzsche said, 'The taller the tree, the deeper its roots must extend into the darkness,' implying that a tree with a weak foundation is doomed to grow crooked. This is the source of modern people's twistedness and internal strife. Parents are accustomed to demanding children meet the standards of adults or even saints and view this as a given, criticizing them when they fall short, neglecting the truth of human nature and the essence of growing up.